You’re probably tired of reading blog posts and articles about networking. But hear me out, because I think the networking I’m about to write about isn’t the type of networking that makes your stomach turn. This style of networking will get you somewhere — or at least it did for me.
I’ll start with a story:
I have been working for a woman who needs help with household tasks every once and a while. It is a nice arrangement — I go over to her house for a little while after work about once a month, do some heavy lifting, hang some pictures, clean some gutters, or whatever she needs and she gives me a little cash. It’s great for both of us. Last night, we got to talking about what each of us does for a living. She’s a publicist for a handful of artists, and I work for an artist management company and am starting a web marketing consulting business on the side. Long story short — I got hired to consult (my first clients actually, this is very new for me) all of her acts.
My point:
You don’t have to be a schmoozer. You can do the rubbing shoulders thing and attend networking events, but you have to be genuine. Most of all: What are you good at? Better yet, what can you do that someone else can’t? Clean gutters? Move a couch? Pose for a live re-enactment of a Da Vinci painting? (That only makes sense if you love Arrested Development as much as I do). All in all, be available. Help people. Be genuine. It WILL work in your favor.
I know there are great stories about how this style of networking helped you. There are so many ways to be creative in how you help people. How did you do it? Tell me some story about how you painted all the doorknobs in someone’s barn and they gave you a job as a web analyst.
People don’t pay for products anymore. They pay for experiences. If you are trying to make it as an artist selling CDs — good luck. Scary as it may be, giving your stuff away might be the best thing you can do for your career.